Avoid – this would include introverts who find this uncomfortable. Avoid situations where you might have to small talk.
Minimise it.
- Be really honest if a topic doesn’t interest you.
So, if someone talks about politics for example you can say.
Politics don’t interest me at all, but I can see that you’re passionate about that.
- Don’t add anything about yourself. That will just extend the conversation. Listen to their side and then make an escape. “Sounds fascinating but I need to be in my office in 15 minutes. Add a courtesy on if you escape like…….Great to meet you. I appreciate your opinion.
Embrace – can you see it in a different light and make it more interesting for both sides?
Ask better questions and avoid what do you do/where do you come from/is this your first time here?
Engage
If someone else kicks off the conversation use “that sounds”……. as a good starting point and then add a describing word for example
That sounds intriguing. What do you like so much about Water Polo?
Add a fact about yourself. I get that. I’m really into Paddle Boarding. This provides an easy in for the other person to ask you something.
